The pursuit of a Dream Life

HEY SHOUTERS

It is true to say that our lives have become extremely busy and from day to night we are engaged in work that we might not even like doing. But, even then we continue doing it.
The question here is WHY?

The answer given by most of us to this "WHY?" is "We don't have a Choice".

I would like to believe that this is not entirely false.  
"Why don't we have a choice?"
Because, right from the starting of our journey, our lives get predefined, not by us but by others!
There is a golden path that has been shown to most of you, a journey which starts with words,

"Do well in your Class 10 boards, get your desired stream and life would be easy going."

The reality is, a lot of us don't even get the chance to select the stream and subjects we want to study.

The next thing that we get to hear is
"Do well in your class 12 boards, get admitted into a good college and life would be easy going".

And this chain goes on to just focusing and doing well in academics, getting a job and then having an easy going life. But in reality, Life gets only gets harder and harder..

We put aside everything, every desire, every dream, every innovative idea that we think of, in order to achieve something that has a specified path to reach and the end result is known. We prefer following such a path not because we want to, but because our family and society wants us to.

"Why should we just abandon the path we have been following for so long?"

Imagine that you are excited for a movie but someone tells you the entire story, including the ending. Will you still be that excited? Probably not!
So, how can we enjoy our life if all the things are already decided? There would be no uncertainties, no risk and hence, no excitement.


We people do have this tendency of postponing things thinking it not to be the right time.

My friends, what I feel, the time when one decides to do something that he wants to, be it starting  his new business startup or writing a blog, is indeed the "right time" :)


The excitement we get from the ideas that will follow our journey.. those sleepless nights thinking about "What if my idea fails/succeeds?", and then finally getting towards the end..
Even failure would not be as bitter as never trying to do what we want to! Because, be it a success or a failure, but atleast we won't have that guilt of not trying..
This guilt is something which sits within you.. that feeling of not being able to enjoy life your way is an immense contributor to stress and depression, as I mentioned in my previous post..

"The rat race for survival is a bitter factor"

People have become so busy 

in taking care that they don't cross the deadline to achieve their monthly target, that they cross that fine that separates us from robots. Instead of running after something that has no value to you, engage yourself in something that speaks to you on a level other than just survival.



Never stop believing yourself. Be practical and make endless efforts in achieving what you desire.
You need not care about what anyone thinks but be honest to yourself.
One day when you will achieve your goals, life would really be EASY GOING :)

                     "DON'T DREAM YOUR LIFE, LIVE YOUR DREAMS"




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